我说,那就飞吧我的天马行空

最近几年已经越来越没有时间写生日文,但是我觉得一定要在这个时间点上停下来总结些什么。

其实我今年看到乔布斯2005年在斯坦福毕业典礼上的演讲,才发现他说的几个点正好与我之前几篇生日文中的观点相契合。

Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.


那天翻到了高考时的相册,发现已经过去8年了,而我秉持的理想主义似乎从一开始就埋下了脉络。


2012

真实是唯一的信仰,自己是唯一的偶像。


2014

可是你的旧物,你的朋友,你的才能,乃至你的生命,你所拥有的一切,不是总有一天会丢失的吗?

你本一无所有,是拥有带给你恐惧。


2016

你需要满足你天性中真正需要的东西。

人生的本质是一段体验。

无论如何,我们终将一事无成,你说呢?


2018

一定要明白自己生命中真正最想要的是什么,假如下一秒即将死亡,你最遗憾的事会是什么。

即使暂时得不到,暂时无法做自己想要做的事,也至少理应明晰自己的方向。


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2012


万幸的是,我找到了自己的方向,明晰自己心中的“Great Work”,知道自己真正想做的是什么,这让我觉得我比其他人幸运很多。毕竟很多人究其一生可能都没有真实地热爱过自己的工作,我何其幸运。我花了很多时间,兜兜转转,绕了一大圈才让自己走在了朝向目标的轨道上。我觉得这一切都是值得的,也时刻提醒自己,不要辜负了自己的幸运与他人的真心相助。

我希望找回高三时候的那种感觉,就是那种为了一个清晰的目标而不断突破自身界限的感觉。

因为我知道,是时候发力了,我在正确的轨道上。


人一生又有几次拼搏的机会呢?


我说,那就飞吧我的天马行空。


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